Every married couple looks forward to their honeymoon; it’s coming home to the newly-wed life that can bring a whirlwind of new obstacles. The transition from honeymoon bliss to a domestic everyday life can result in friction. Start your life with your honey on the right foot, with friction aside by following these simple steps:
Sort Out Money Matters
The number one reason behind relationship problems is quite often money issues. To avoid this, you need to sit down and have an open and honest discussion about all monetary issues with your partner way before the honeymoon let alone marriage. It may not be the most glamorous thing to do, but it is a necessary step for a healthy long lasting marriage.
Divide the Workload
Another thing that can throw couples for a loop that may seem silly, but in reality can cause a lot of disagreement, cleaning duties! This may be because one of them is naturally messy while the other is a neat freak. It may be because one member of the couple feels like the housework is being divided unfairly. It may be because the couple disagrees about whether to use DIY household products or store-bought versions. Like all issues that affect couples, the key is to sit down and calmly talk through the issues to reach a common understanding.
Even the smallest things matter, like how you spend your time together and apart. Giving each other necessary space to still have an individual identity is not only beneficial in the long run for both parties, but also a much healthier approach to any relationship. Sharing a passion for each other’s’ interests and strong communication will go a very long way.
If you work together to reach common ground, you will be able to handle almost anything married life throws your way. Be sure to always try to compromise and see things from your partner’s point of view. Flexibility, communication and cooperation are the cornerstones of a healthy relationship.
Picking an exciting destination for your honeymoon adventure is easy. What excites you? Where can you go to find the best in the world for that? Now start by tickets. Simple for those with an adventurous heart like you and your soon to partner. Those around you may not be so excited about the parts unknown of the world. They are the ones that will ask you where you are heading and immediate tell you about some disaster that a cousin experienced or they saw on the news or even worse, read online. They can’t help it. They love you and want you to be safe. Your know the truth though. Those things may happen but rarely. Besides, admit it. The possibly of something not quite right is part of the thrill for you. Destination honeymoon adventures require planning for thing less exciting.
The reality of destinations are much more mundane. Heading to a hot climate for volcano hiking or wild surf adventures? One of the biggest concerns will be maintaining a cool and collected, sexy look at dinner afterwards. Sweating it out for a killer view it great but sweating through your shirt over cocktails, not so much. Taking a little insurance like Rexona Clinical for men to keep things dry, will go a long ways to preserving you sexy cool appeal.
If you are off to the mountains for a serious powder honeymoon, sweating over dinner will only be a problem if you sit too close to the fireplace. Easily managed by chair selection. The bigger problem will be making sure you are keeping yourself and the love of your life warm. No one wants cold feet pressed up against them as a way to warm up the mood. Get some Merino wool socks on those icicle toes. Great for keeping warm and come with fun patterns if you need something more than the standard black. Just don’t wear them to bed. This is your honeymoon. Socks in bed may be just as bad as asking to tuck cold feet into places they don’t belong.
Autumn wedding are beautiful. The crispness in the air, the leaves turning color, and the quality of the light make for a most romantic time of year. A honeymoon taking advantage of this time of year seems fitting, doesn’t it?
There is nothing quite like a road trip, and a road trip in the fall just takes on a whole other level of fun as you drive through beautiful forests, enjoy stunning views, and cozy up in some of the best country inns around. So jump in your Volvo and get going already!!
Here are 5 fabulous fall drives that would make the perfect honeymoon:
- Blue Ridge Parkway. This 500 mile route through Virginia and North Carolina takes you through harvest season farmland, and all the bounty it has to offer, as well as the Appalachian forests of N.Carolina displaying their full color.
- Lake Placid. A classic fall drive in New York takes you through the Adirondacks and the sugar maples that display an unbelievable red color that has to be seen to be believed.
- Skyline Drive. This drive, through Shenandoah National Park in Virginia, hasn’t been named one of the top 10 scenic drives for nothing. Enter into the Blue Ridge Mountains and be prepared for miles and miles of stunning views and a beautiful color display.
- The Coast of Maine. There is nothing better than the combination of autumn and the ocean. The salty air lingers just a little longer on the fall breeze while cozy inns call out for an early finish to the day.
- Eastern Sierra Mountains. It’s the aspens, willows, and cottonwoods that bring this drive to life. While missing the red hues of the eastern drives, these trees bring brilliant yellows and oranges that have to be seen to be believed. Coupled with a blue California sky, it is a sight to be seen.
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Honeymoons are something most people dream of their whole lives. So when the day finally comes, you want it to be spectacular. Without skipping a beat, your first step is ensuring your bank account is ready to take the financial plunge when booking that perfect destination. Investing in a market linked GIC is a great option for those who want to save money while also benefiting from stocks, all while staying safe in case anything were to drastically change on wall street. So start planning, and remember, this is a once in a lifetime opportunity – so make it count.
While it may seem obvious that the first step to planning a honeymoon is choosing the destination, it is not always an easy task. You and your spouse will need to have an honest discussion about what it is that you both hope to experience on this first vacation as a newly married couple. Be sure to consider the time of year during which you will be traveling. Whether you want to stay at a beach resort in Hawaii or in a cozy lodge with a fireplace in Alaska, you will want to choose a destination that suits both of your tastes. Making this joint decision will bring you and your spouse closer together.
Again, one of the most important things to consider on your honeymoon is your budget. This vacation should be a time of fun and relaxation, and it will be much easier to enjoy your time if you know exactly how much you have to spend. Unexpected travel costs can be quite stressful, so plan ahead; research activities in your destination area that meet your budget and plan accordingly. If you have a credit card that earns frequent flier miles or has other perks, this could be a great opportunity to start racking up rewards.
After countless hours of planning your wedding, you will indeed have to spend a few more planning what to do on your honeymoon. You’ve arrived at your destination: what next? Ask your spouse what he/she would like to do. If his/her ideas don’t mesh with your interests, find a way to compromise. There are bound to be countless activities in your destination area that will be exciting for both of you; be sure to keep an open mind. In the midst of planning your adventures, don’t forget to schedule some downtime, as well. While having scheduled activities can be a good way to maximize your vacation time, you will need time to unwind and relax. After all, a honeymoon is a time to get away and have alone time with your spouse before entering the world of married life. This is a great opportunity to start things off right!
Destination beaches, beautiful backyards, grand halls, stunning churches, music to get everyone shaking, food and drinks to fuel everything. This may be the plans for the wedding but it can also be the plans for your honeymoon adventure. Start thinking about some jungle exploring as well and you are getting closer to starting your happily ever after in Brazil.
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Brazil offers some tantalizing options regardless of when you plan your wedding. Summer northern wedding, it is the cool season in the south and the beaches will be quieter if you want romantic seclusion while the north will be for sun seekers. Winter in the north and the beaches of Rio will be buzzing with excitement especially at Carnival time.
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Your adventurous sides will have you wanting to explore this big country after a few day of beach time. Brazil’s biggest airline, TAM, has you covered as you head off to explore the Amazon by canoe or tour at Iquazu Falls. Maybe there is a need for more adrenaline and kiteboarding and dune buggies in the north around Natal. Getting closer to the earth with hiking and mountain biking in the jungle mesas near Salvador is going to drive your adventurous honeymoon.
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You won’t be far from trying a culture of blended food traditions either. A blessing of seafood on the coasts, tropical fruits and the ever present coconuts, the use of cassava and yucca means you will experience tasty surprises down every little alley. Influenced by European, African and a wide breath of Indigenous cultures there is everything from delicious little sandwiches with a serious twist to decadent desserts.
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The beer will be ice cold. No self respecting Brazilian will drink it any other way. If beer isn’t for you then let yourself be tempted by the local spirit, Cachaça, usual found in the form of the national drink, the Caipirinha. Be warned. This is serious alcohol, while easy to drink, it is also easy to drink too many.
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One thing you are guaranteed if you choose to travel through Asia is great casino – whether you stop off in Singapore, Macau, South Korea or Kuala Lumpur.
Marina Bay Sands Resort
This is one of just two casinos to be found in Singapore, and it is the one to choose if you want to combine casino with a romantic break – because the views to be found from the SkyPark terrace are breathtaking. You and your partner will also enjoy the amazing infinity pool, as well as the designer label shops and restaurants.
One of the thirty casinos that has led Macau to be named the ‘Monte Carlo of the Orient,’ the Galaxy Macau stands out even in such exalted company, by virtue of the private beach and five swimming pools it provides visitors with. This is before they even hit the gaming rooms where, like so many other Asian casinos, the typical games you will find in casinos in the West are mixed with Eastern ones like Fan-Tan.
Paradise Casino Walker Hill
This is South Korea’s biggest casino, and offers the widest choice of games of any of those found in the country. This is an important factor given the competition posed by ipad casino sites. One of the quirks of the Paradise Casino Walker Hill is that you will not find any actual South Koreans playing the slot machines, baccarat, blackjack or roulette there, as they are forbidden to do so. They are only allowed to use one of the casinos in the country, making this one a tourist spot.
Kuala Lumpur is probably the place that the least number of people think of when it comes to Asian casino, but the Genting Highlands – the only (legal) one to be found there, is well worth a visit. You need a cable car to get to it, as it is on top of a hill, but once there you will find inummerable restaurants, hotels and casino games – as well as a giant theme park – making the place to play at in Malaysia.
After the months of stress leading up to your wedding day, your honeymoon can be a great excuse to get away from it all and relax with your new husband or wife. Whether you’re going on a beach getaway, a skier’s vacation or a hiking trip, your honeymoon should be the perfect blend of exciting, energetic activities and one on one down time.
All that excitement can certainly take its toll on a pair of newlyweds, and goodness knows you’ll need your energy! If you want to cool off a little, here are a few ways that you and your new spouse can relax.
Relight that fire!
Whether you’re in a hotel room, cabin or your own villa, you and your partner can really enjoy each other’s company without having to resort to modern technology. Throw away the DVDs and open the wine, don your bath robes and light that fire – you’ll soon begin to appreciate the beauty of one of Earth’s natural elements and enjoy each other’s company even better without having to spend huge amounts of money. Just make sure you don’t drink too much of the aforementioned wine before you light the fire – you don’t want your honeymoon to be memorable in that way!
Play a board game
Resorting to board games doesn’t always have to be a result of bad weather – in fact, they can be a great source of fun and can let you and your partner indulge your competitive sides. You don’t have to stick to the traditional either – if you and your hubby or wife aren’t too fussed about Monopoly, why not make things more interesting with a game of
Twister? With nobody around to spin the spinner but the two of you, there are guaranteed few laughs.
Have a little alone time
A honeymoon should set the tone for the rest of your marriage – enjoying the best of each other’s company, but also knowing when to make the most of your own alone time. If you want a little space from each other, that’s nothing to feel bad about. Relax, put your feet up, and look to other ways of keeping yourself entertained – for example, having some time out with your tablet or smartphone. The internet is awash with fun gaming websites
or social media pages, so you can whittle away those quieter hours sharing your memories before you return to reality.
Of course, if you are going to play a little competitively and need a little help, you can always get your partner involved. Consider making things a little interesting with bingo.com, where the two of you can test you skills and even make a little money in the process – it’s not often couples can come back from their honeymoon with more money than they left with!
Your honeymoon adventure can span the historic as well as the modern. The cradle of civilization with a good dose of beach activities will kick off your happily ever after by stimulating both your minds and bodies. There are few places that will whisk you back in time like a honeymoon in Greece. Layers of ancient civilizations, stunning islands, sparkling oceans and food that will have wishing the honeymoon never ends.
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As a short hop from the rest of Europe, your post wedding getaway to Greece will be easy to arrange and difficult not to find romance as well as adventure. Nature beauty and variety is found on the Aegean islands. Explore the ruins on Delos or Rhodes. Enjoy the night life on Mykonos. Fall in love yet again with the stunning scenery of Santorini. Add the adventurous element by including Greek island hopping on a sailboat in your honeymoon plans.
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When you have had your fill of exploring history, Greek beaches will entice you for some quality relaxation. White sand, black sand or red sand. All are available for match either your taste or swimsuits. Sun and clear waters will ensure your beach time is enjoyable. Backdropped by cliffs and perfectly white washed villas suggest nothing more than leaning back and letting the days float by.
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Your day time adventures will need some fuel and the food of Greece will fit that bill nicely. Whether you are tempted by stuffed squids and grilled octopus, fresh salads and local cheeses or meats grilled to perfection, there will be something to keep you going. Easy to grab quick snacks like gyros are prefect to keep you going on your day adventures. The adventures are only part of your Greek honeymoon because romance is a necessity as well and romantic dining will easily set the mood.
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Your wedding is planned to happen as the northern hemisphere thaws and exploring rugged coastlines to start your happily ever after is appealing. One of the best ways to get up close and personal with the ocean and shore in from a kayak. Kayaking Norway fjords is a jaw dropping, humbling experience in the scale of both ocean and mountains. A stunning adventure for your honeymoon.
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Norway has over 50,000 km of coastline. This is due mostly to the dips and folds of the fjords that penetrate from the ocean deep into the coast. There is no way to explore this entire coast in one season and I suspect that once you start paddling in these waters you will be back for more. The coast stretches from a relatively balmy 58 degrees latitude to well past the Arctic circle topping out above the 70th latitude. The coastal waters are under the influence of the Gulf Stream and are kept “warm” relative to expectations for the high latitude.
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Your route can depend entirely on how rugged or remote you would like to journey. Many of the outer and northern areas are studded with parks and wilderness preserves. Due to the lack of accessibility, these areas also lack permanent settlements. If you are interested in something more pampered there are large number of areas featuring cozy cabins and vacation resorts to take care of food and accommodations. Having reservations is a good idea because these coastal areas are very popular for tourist from the rest of Europe who may not be arriving by kayak like you.
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Getting off the water for some hiking can be just as spectacular. Climbing the some of the towering peaks that embrace and define the fjords will reward you with stunning vistas. Typically, hikes will take you several hundred to a thousand metres about sea level and can be comfortably accomplished in half a day. You may want to linger longer and soak in the views, they can be breathtaking.
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